Getting support for all you wish and want to do becomes vital as you plan important things in life. You expect and know who all would give it to you, unconditionally and some even conditionally. Although, some times, surprisingly enough you get it from places and people from where you had least expected it from. We have prejudices about people and we almost know very well about how they react to things. And this happens more if you know the person from a long time but not if they are not so close to you. I know it takes a long time to understand a way someone thinks. But this is just one of those days when I'm realizing that its not that good to form prejudice or a mental picture of a person in a certain (wrong/negative) way. The person may have a golden heart but probably just doesn't know how to show it to you or the way they show that, is different from what we want to see. But finally you will come to see, I hope as I did, people are different certainly, and they can be the best support you have when you really need it. I initally felt its about accepting people as they are but this is more than that, this is about accepting that they do really care for you and accepting the real strength that their support gives us and makes us stronger in some or the other little way !
21 February 2010
12 February 2010
My new blog
I'm back to my poetry...with 'Words of Veracity'. Speaking the truth in your and my life, I think many of you would relate to it some how. It's been some years I haven't written poems, so felt I should get back to it. But it might take some time before I'm really good at it again although I'm sure I'll work on it.
Suggestions and opinions are welcome !
Suggestions and opinions are welcome !
09 February 2010
Is there anything like love?
Yeah I know...interesting title....but I've been really thinking about this. Is there something like love? Does it exist really or have we humans just given it that name too relatively for some of the intoxicating feelings and experiences that happen to us?
But when that happens, our judgement gets clouded - like a tall glass of beer !. We only start seeing the beauty around. Suddenly things appear nicer, prettier than before, we start enjoying things we've never enjoyed before. We anxiously look at the cell phone just to see that name on the flashing light. The heart takes a big leap if its that person whose name you wanted to see there. We wait to hear that voice, to feel that hug and that warmth. And interestingly enough no one but that person becomes your first priority in life. You change decisions, plan out things...oh not things but the entire life probably, keeping that person in mind, think endlessly and care a bit too much about that wonderful person... its always "him" or "her" on your mind !
Life isn't just complete without your sweetheart. Thins go wild, crazy, emotions flow like a gushing river you are in love...and all of a sudden you land on the ground with a thud.
Something happens so suddenly (for you not the person) that changes all those things. And all you think of is why/how/what did I do...what happened? I did so much and cared and loved. But why was I treated that way? But its just not done, you can't work on love, like you work on exams or at work. It doesn't come to you when you crave and want it, it comes when you are just not willing to fall in it ! Until you find your true soul mate and lover, you wish for and want all those people who don't wish to be with you and all those people who wish to be with you are no way on your mind that time because you are so much into chasing and craving for the love of your life. Believe me, all of us pass so much of time in making it work with the one we are in love with and by that time the ones who wait for us walk away. If you now imagine us to be in those who walked away, you'll see that way we too were so much into someone the same way that person was into someone else ! Complicated isn't it?
SO basically I feel...it's a cycle, you fall in love with someone and that someone doesn't love you the same and then that person too probably is waiting for someone else who is again waiting for someone else !
So you just drown yourself in the ocean of blunders and feel disgusted because finally its just about the person...but we all got to understand this simple equation - if he/she loves you - they just simply love you - there is not a single explanation or reason for that and if they don't they just don't and don't waste your precious life and time thinking about why the heck! Just live your life and do what you love, be passionate about your ambition, see that you get it and life happens...steadily as time passes. You really don't need a lover or anyone to change your life or make your life better. Its just your hormones, brain and heart that is at tremendous work with your feelings and emotions so don't let them play around with you so much.
At the end its just you. And you can't blame and depend on others...no matter how close, for anything. You have to make that life for yourself.
There is love - yes I believe in it, but it is obviously very much relative. Don't work on it, it never happens when you do. I think love is something greatly practical, divine and eternal...when a person wants to spend his/her time and life with you and be there in your good and bad times.
OR Must I say...just be there for you - as your shadow, with some nice rough patches thrown in for some fun.
But when that happens, our judgement gets clouded - like a tall glass of beer !. We only start seeing the beauty around. Suddenly things appear nicer, prettier than before, we start enjoying things we've never enjoyed before. We anxiously look at the cell phone just to see that name on the flashing light. The heart takes a big leap if its that person whose name you wanted to see there. We wait to hear that voice, to feel that hug and that warmth. And interestingly enough no one but that person becomes your first priority in life. You change decisions, plan out things...oh not things but the entire life probably, keeping that person in mind, think endlessly and care a bit too much about that wonderful person... its always "him" or "her" on your mind !
Life isn't just complete without your sweetheart. Thins go wild, crazy, emotions flow like a gushing river you are in love...and all of a sudden you land on the ground with a thud.
Something happens so suddenly (for you not the person) that changes all those things. And all you think of is why/how/what did I do...what happened? I did so much and cared and loved. But why was I treated that way? But its just not done, you can't work on love, like you work on exams or at work. It doesn't come to you when you crave and want it, it comes when you are just not willing to fall in it ! Until you find your true soul mate and lover, you wish for and want all those people who don't wish to be with you and all those people who wish to be with you are no way on your mind that time because you are so much into chasing and craving for the love of your life. Believe me, all of us pass so much of time in making it work with the one we are in love with and by that time the ones who wait for us walk away. If you now imagine us to be in those who walked away, you'll see that way we too were so much into someone the same way that person was into someone else ! Complicated isn't it?
SO basically I feel...it's a cycle, you fall in love with someone and that someone doesn't love you the same and then that person too probably is waiting for someone else who is again waiting for someone else !
So you just drown yourself in the ocean of blunders and feel disgusted because finally its just about the person...but we all got to understand this simple equation - if he/she loves you - they just simply love you - there is not a single explanation or reason for that and if they don't they just don't and don't waste your precious life and time thinking about why the heck! Just live your life and do what you love, be passionate about your ambition, see that you get it and life happens...steadily as time passes. You really don't need a lover or anyone to change your life or make your life better. Its just your hormones, brain and heart that is at tremendous work with your feelings and emotions so don't let them play around with you so much.
At the end its just you. And you can't blame and depend on others...no matter how close, for anything. You have to make that life for yourself.
There is love - yes I believe in it, but it is obviously very much relative. Don't work on it, it never happens when you do. I think love is something greatly practical, divine and eternal...when a person wants to spend his/her time and life with you and be there in your good and bad times.
OR Must I say...just be there for you - as your shadow, with some nice rough patches thrown in for some fun.
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